Thursday, August 7, 2008

Pornography and Sexual Addiction

I look at pornography as an addiction. You keep on craving something that is harder and harder..... until you reach a point where pornography goes so far. You reach that jumping- off point where you begin to wonder if actually doing it will give you that which is beyond just reading about it or looking at it.

Pornography is the gateway drug of most sexual addiction. Like any other addiction sex addiction is progressive. There is a built- in dynamic that always drives the addict to the next level and the next.

Sex is the void of intimacy (such as pornography and casual sex) works as addictively as any pill or injection. Sex provides a quick mood change. It is a reliable escape.It masks the pain. Eventually the sex addicts becomes powerless over it. The addict goes out of control as the compulsion takes control. Even harmful consequences cannot deter the sex addict's compulsion to repeat the act and find temporary relief.

You're Beautiful The Way You Are

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wished you were someone else? If you answer yes, you're in the majority. Probably everyone who has ever lived wished that they could change at least one thing about themselves: their nose, their height, their personality- something.

Looks. Money. Possessions.Popularity. They all have one thing in common, their not guaranteed. Even if you have them, they're all temporary. When your self- worth relies on the outward aspects of your life, happiness and fulfillment will always be short lived. For everything you see by your naked eye is not permanent.

True worth can only be measured by accepting to yourself of what and who you are. It is showing contentment of what GOD has given you. Remember You are beautiful the way you are. Just have confidence to carry yourself out of the billion.Bear in mind that the essence of beauty isn't seen by the eyes rather perceives by the heart.